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Baby Born After Chemical Abortion Makes for Special Mother's Day
Source: St. Petersburg (FL) Times; May 13, 2001
Hernando,
FL -- Nicole Saia believes she is celebrating her first Mother's
Day by the grace of God. The birth of Alexandria Nicole Saia on April
5
was, she says, a miracle.
When
18-year-old Nicole learned that she was pregnant, she followed the
urging of the baby's father to have an abortion. The unmarried couple
traveled to an abortion facility in Gainesville, Florida where the young
woman received an injection of methotrexate, part of the RU 486 chemical
abortion process. She was told it would kill the fastest-growing cells,
which would be the placenta, and was given suppositories with the
instructions to take them five days later to cause the contractions
that
would expel the dead baby.
Two
days later, Nicole said, she realized that she did not want to abort
her baby, so she told her parents what she had done. The three discussed
the problem and then Nicole's mother made a suggestion.
"I
said, "The first thing we're going to do is pray and put you into
Jesus' hands, because this is definitely out of ours,' " said Joan
Saia.
"Next day, Nicole got on the phone and called the abortion clinic.
They
told her the embryo was dead and there was nothing to do. She called
the
pharmacy and they said the drug could cause deformities, but the baby
may
still be alive. They didn't know."
Nicole
wanted to find out more about methotrexate. When she called Citrus
Memorial Hospital, she was advised to call the Genesis Women's Center
in
Inverness. She explained her situation and received a call back with
a
message from Dr. Steven Roth telling her to come right in.
An
ultrasound was performed, and on her 19th birthday, Nicole found out
that her baby was alive.
"I
guess the way (Dr. Roth) felt about it was, if I would have a change
of
heart, he was going to do everything in his power to help me,"
said
Nicole.
"That's
exactly what I told her," said Roth. "I said, 'If you're not
going
to go through with this, I'll do whatever I can.' I had her take
Leukovorin (a drug given in cancer treatment along with methotrexate
to
protect normal cells) to overwhelm the chemical she took."
"I
had never written a prescription for Leukovorin in my life. I had to
call somebody else to find out what the dosage was. I think God had
a hand
in opening up my mind in using that as a possible treatment option and
certainly in just protecting that baby. Even having Nicole come to us
and
just the way it worked out that day. He was in it from the very
beginning."
Nicole
took the prescription until the following Monday when a second
sonogram showed that the baby was still alive. She had passed the crisis
period.
The
growth of the baby was carefully monitored and in early November
Nicole found out through a sonogram that she was carrying a little girl
who had no visible deformities. In April, she went into labor three
weeks
early and delivered a 4-pound, 7-ounce girl, whom she named Alexandria.
"I
watched the birth through the mirror. It was strange," said Nicole.
"It
was the most wonderful feeling in the world, but having her early made
me nervous and with her being so small, I was really scared. When she
was
in the nursery, every two hours I was in there feeding her, and at night
I
couldn't sleep, so I'd stay in there, and all the time that I was spending
with her I was realizing she was mine."
Nicole,
who will soon complete her bachelor's degree in business
administration at Saint Leo University's Ocala campus, says it hasn't
been
easy being a single mom. She lives at home with her parents and younger
sister, and her grandmother is right next door to help.
"I
love her, but it's hard. I'm a single mom and I had to finish out
school this semester. I'm going back to work, so it's hard doing it
by
myself, and even now I still worry that something may be wrong."
She
acknowledges a local crisis pregnancy center for their help.
"I
wouldn't trade her for anything in the world. My whole family has been
wonderful along with all the outside support. The Life Choice Care Center
helped me emotionally through my pregnancy. My church, my college. I
couldn't ask for a better family or a better support system."
"My
main concern was that God's will be done," said Joan Saia. "I
wanted
my daughter to be safe. I wanted the baby to be safe. I just go with
what's handed to me. When I feel it's completely out of my hands, I
just
put it into God's. I have a very strong faith and the power of prayer,
I'm
a very strong believer in that."
Her
own mother, Vivian, passed that faith onto Joan.
"It's
a miracle," said Vivian about the baby's birth. "It's really
what
God wanted, because in the beginning we were all concerned that the
baby
would be not perfect in some way. But she is absolutely perfect, a little
bit small, but she's got all her fingers and toes. I know she hears
because she winces when there's a big sound, and we know she sees because
when we take a picture, a flash will cause her eyes to blink open and
close."
As
for Alexandria's father, he knows that Nicole did not go through with
the abortion and that she gave birth, according to Mary Lou Hendry,
director of the Life Choice Care Center.
Nicole
said she wants to tell her story to save other girls from the
emotional strain she endured.
"When
I went to the abortion clinic, I talked to the counselor. I was
crying and I told her that I didn't want to do this and that I wasn't
ready to do it, but she told the doctor that I was fine and to go in
for
the procedure. If I had taken the suppositories, I would have miscarried,
but it would have been a live baby and there's no way I would have known.
So some of these people who are getting the two-process chemical abortions
might actually be aborting a live child, because the first shot doesn't
always work."
Roth
said he thinks Nicole is a hero.
"She's
the one who had to go through the whole pregnancy not knowing if
her baby was going to be deformed or what might happen. It was a very
brave and wonderful decision that she made, and I'm just so excited
for
her."
You
can see a picture of Nicole, Alexandria and Nicole's mother and
grandmother at http://www.sptimes.com/News/051301/photos/cit-mom.jpg
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